This is my first blog on the Job Hunt mini-series. When starting to embark on finding a new job, preparing yourself is the most important first step, so the first set of posts will focus on the initial work necessary to launch yourself going forward.
Prepare yourself both physically, including financially and logistically, but more importantly mentally and emotionally for what you are about to undertake. The job hunt is often an adventure, so readying yourself is crucial.
Here are three basic ways to prepare yourself:
| Give yourself time to process what you’re leaving/left. |
| Take stock mentally, emotionally, and materially for the long haul. |
| Be patient and know what you can control. |
Give yourself time to process what you’re leaving/left.
Frequently when people are looking for a job, they recently ended or would like to end some prior situation: maybe something happened causing them to resign or be let go, or they are stressed for whatever reason at their current position and thus seeking something else. In such situations, make sure you explicitly take time to process and heal from whatever you may be coming out of.
How to do so might depend on both who you are and what you have encountered. Maybe you need to replenish yourself from burnout, emotionally and/or mentally process what happened, or reassess who you are. This will take time, and that it does is in no way a negative reflection of you.
Be conscientious about developing meaningful practices that will rejuvenate you and help you process what happened. Journal, take up a hobby, talk with friends or family, or do whatever helps you. After a day of exertion, our bodies physically need to sleep at night to rebuild the muscle tissue for a new day of adventures. Our emotional and mental faculties often work similarly: taking the time to slow down and process what happened will allow you to move forward in pursuit of your next occupational adventure.
Take stock for the long haul.
Be prepared mentally, emotionally, and materially for the long haul. I frequently hear people say that it takes on average six months to find a job. At the time of writing this, the economy is bad, and it could be longer. Materially and financially take stock of how many resources you have and how you can plan to get by for a while.
Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally a long trek in finding the next job. Try to resist the urge to appease yourself with the potentially false promise of a quick turnaround and ignore any swindlers trying to sell you the same.
Telling yourself that it could take months of grueling work to find a job will help you in the long run. It’ll be much easier on you to have a shorter-than-expected job hunt than to have your high hopes for a quick out crushed.
The job search is (almost always) a long and arduous process. Be ready for that.
To me personally, the job hunt feels like a tunnel: you hope/sense that there is a light at the end of it when you will find the next gig, but you do not know when it will come. It could always be tomorrow that you get that amazing job offer or several months from now.
There is generally light at the end of the tunnel, but that doesn’t mean the experience isn’t difficult. Having unrealistic expectations will only make the dark times ahead feel all the darker.
Be patient and know what you can control.
The ancient stoic philosophers emphasized not holding yourself accountable to what is beyond your control, and I have found that the job hunt can necessitate its own version of stoicism. You can do a lot to better your application, find the right job, connect with the right people, and these are important.
But, there is always so much about it that you cannot control. You cannot fully control where employers on the other side are coming from and what decisions they make: how and where they look for candidates, what they think of you and whether they value you, or even whether organizations/companies have an open position in the first place.
One pro of the online applications is that we even more equipped to apply to positions around the world, but one con is that thousands of applications go unread. Job prospects can often come and go based on wider structural societally factors – like a failing economy – or the successes or failures of that specific organization. You can do everything right in application and still fail for reasons outside of your control.
You can and should strive to make your application as strong as possible: both presenting yourself in the best possible light and searching within your means for the best job openings for you. But, as in Richard Niebuhr’s famous prayer, possessing the wisdom to know what you can and cannot change is crucial. This requires that you be patient with yourself if and when you fail so that you can continue to pick yourself back up and try again.
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